Yours, Mine and Ours

Yours, Mine and Ours (1968), starring Lucille Ball, Henry Fonda, Van Johnson, Tom Bosley

 I can honestly say that  Yours, Mine and Ours  is one of my family’s favorite movies.   It’s a wonderful story, about the merging of two large families. The Beardsley family of ten children, with the widowed father played by  Henry Fonda. And the North family of eight children, with the widowed mother played by  Lucille Ball).   First comes the courtship of the father and mother… Awkwardly, clumsily, with the very understandable resentment of the children who don’t want their deceased parents ‘replaced’. This leads to “An alcoholic Pearl Harbor” that gives Lucille Ball an opportunity to play the drunk. It’s reminiscent of the classic  Vitameatavegamin episode of her classic  I Love Lucy  series. Ending with the dramatic revelation that she’s fallen in love again.

After the marriage comes the  difficult  part, the actually merging of the two families together. This is set against the background of the turbulent 1960’s in the United States of America. “The most frustrated sex maniac in the history of the world” pressures one of their daughters. Don’t worry, this is a family movie. As well as the specter of the Vietnam war, and the impending drafting of one of the older sons.

Wonderful performances by both  Henry Fonda and Lucille Ball, as well as great supporting performances by Van Johnson and Tom Bosley.   It’s one of those rare movies that is funny, touching, insightful, and watched over and over again.   It’s a wonderful movie, and I recommend it highly.